Fri 6 Feb 2009
are you sitting down?
Posted by Compulsive Writer under is there a doctor in the house? , thank my lucky stars[33] Comments
I’m not quite sure how to tell you this, but we have even better news. As I said we were still trying to process the information we received in the pathology report today, so I wanted to clarify the final diagnosis before I passed it on. I had several questions and I just received a response from the team at Huntsman:
Contrary to the findings of the first two pathology reports, the tumor was not a sarcoma–it’s called fibromyxoma–and it was actually benign (benign as in “Shane miraculously doesn’t have cancer,” not as in “it wouldn’t do some damage if they had left it in”). The surgery was still necessary both in order to remove the tumor (it is known to be locally aggressive and has a significant rate of recurrence if not all removed) and in order to determine the best course of treatment for Shane.
We’re not sure how to explain or understand exactly what we’ve been through the past several weeks–and we know the recovery has just begun–but we do know we have been very blessed by the priesthood blessings Shane has received and by the many prayers on his behalf.
Shane’s still hurting (but grateful for less pressure and the blessed removal of that darn screw stuck in the roof of his mouth) and the recovery will still be a bit of a process (read bear), but he’s hanging in there.
We’re still trying to wrap our heads around all of this, but I thought we should let you know.
p.s. But in case you were wondering, I still hate cancer.
February 6th, 2009 at 8:33 pm
Miracle.
February 6th, 2009 at 8:41 pm
I thought you said “and the recovery is will still be a bit of a process (read BEER)” Which would also make sense.
Hooray for no cancer!
February 6th, 2009 at 8:46 pm
Can’t help but smile. And maybe a little wet around the eyes.
February 6th, 2009 at 8:47 pm
WOW – that is unbelievable! I’m stunned – in a good way of course! Lots of love to Shane as he copes with this “bear”!
February 6th, 2009 at 9:00 pm
Thank you for sharing your struggles and blessings. They have been a strength to me.
Love that Shane.
February 6th, 2009 at 9:03 pm
I am so happy!!! That is great news.
February 6th, 2009 at 9:10 pm
Wonderful news!
February 6th, 2009 at 9:23 pm
Oh my gosh, that’s so amazing! I’m SO happy to hear it! Thank you so much for sharing!
February 6th, 2009 at 9:29 pm
Wow! That is fantastic! Sleep well tonight, my friend!
February 6th, 2009 at 10:35 pm
Absolutely fab news!
February 6th, 2009 at 10:43 pm
Awesome. I’m so happy for you guys.
February 6th, 2009 at 10:53 pm
Oh my. You must be ready to collapse after such a roller coaster. I pray for you both to have a restful weekend and hope Shane’s recovery is as speedy as possible.
February 6th, 2009 at 10:56 pm
It is a miracle. I love that!
February 7th, 2009 at 12:00 am
An awesome miracle. Yay!
February 7th, 2009 at 12:05 am
Yay!
February 7th, 2009 at 8:22 am
I can’t imagine the tangle of emotions you all must be feeling.
I’m so happy for you and yours!!
February 7th, 2009 at 8:33 am
Thanks everyone. We’re so incredibly relieved and grateful, but e-dub is exactly right: what a tangle of thoughts and emotions! I wish I could stay in bed today and sleep it all off–it’s kind of exhausting. I just want Shane to heal now. The recovery is still a rough go.
February 7th, 2009 at 9:58 am
I’m sincerely happy for you both and wish you the best int he healing process, which will take time and patience and faith, itself.
February 7th, 2009 at 10:59 am
Yeah Priesthood!
Yeah Miracles!
Yeah Everything Good!
February 7th, 2009 at 11:10 am
I’m SO happy for you guys!!!
February 7th, 2009 at 12:11 pm
HALLELUJAH!
February 7th, 2009 at 1:47 pm
Wow. That is fantastic news. I am so happy for you all! Praise God from whom blessings flow…
February 7th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
Such wonderful news. Never underestimate the power of combined fasting & prayer (providing it’s Heavenly Father’s will of course). You must feel so relieved. We will continue our prayers for Shane as he deals with what is yet to come. Keep reminding him that he can get through this after all he’s been through these past few weeks.
Hugs for all of you!
February 7th, 2009 at 6:35 pm
wow wow wow. Roller coaster indeed! But how awesome to come off it to THAT news rather than something else. So happy for you and your family and I’ll still be thinking of you all for the recovery process. Thank you for sharing your experience though the blog.
February 7th, 2009 at 9:33 pm
so i’m a little late to the party, but I’ve been reading like a word-ivore to catch up on the story and just wanted to add my cheers to the others that this is benign! You’ll all be in my heart and my prayers for a swift and complete recovery.
February 7th, 2009 at 11:17 pm
I’m absolutely thrilled to hear this! It is truly a miracle.
That said, did you get to keep the screw? Because that would be an awesome souvenir. (Sorry, I had to ask.)
February 7th, 2009 at 11:27 pm
You bet we kept it (they kept everything else). I told Shane I would make a shadow box with it for Christmas. He told the doc to make sure the teeth got sent to the tooth fairy so Shane would have enough money to pay his bill.
February 8th, 2009 at 4:02 pm
Wow! I hardly know what to say, I was so shocked and relieved when I read the email. I know it doesn’t mean suddenly everything is easy and I know there is still work and recovery to be done…but, wow, no cancer. I can’t help but smile being able to say that out loud.
February 8th, 2009 at 6:24 pm
BLESSED, BLESSED, BLESSED, AND COME WHAT MAY, AND LOVE IT.
-ELDER WIRTHLIN NOV. ENSIGN 2008- FINAL CONFERENCE ADDRESS.-
SO WORTH REREADING ALL OVER AGAIN.
THE LORD HEARS AND ANSWERS PRAYERS. – I CAN TESTIFY TO THAT.-
February 8th, 2009 at 8:50 pm
What an exhausting, overwhelming, incredible journey you and Shane have been on–and will continue with. I am so uplifted and encouraged by reading your experience. All of it: the good, the bad, the ugly, but most of all the honesty and grace that you have had (and continue to have) amid all of it has given me a lot of thought. . . wow!
February 8th, 2009 at 9:35 pm
That is a miracle! How wonderful!
February 8th, 2009 at 11:41 pm
Amazing.
February 10th, 2009 at 2:47 pm
Boy am I ever out of the loop. That is seriously the best news I’ve read all week. I am so grateful and happy for your family, and especially, Shane.