Tue 27 Jan 2009
a day in the life and a room with a view
Posted by Compulsive Writer under enjoy the ride , i hate cancer , is there a doctor in the house?[19] Comments
I woke up at 3:45. Shane snored until 5:50. We left at 6:45 and checked in by quarter to eight.

Shane arriving at the Palace (not to be confused with the Palace in Provo where we used to attend Punk Night in the good old days).
Shane has been quite courageous during the entire ordeal, at least until the asked him to put his clothes in a U of U garment bag.

Doesn’t this come in BYU Blue?
As Shane changed into his open-backed gown I promised him, “I got your back.” I came away with his marbles, too.

In a diligent effort not to lose them, Shane carries these marbles in his pocket daily (even on weekends). I have now been charged with the care and keeping of the husband’s marbles until he has pockets again.
True to our entire experience with Huntsman, everyone we’ve met here has been especially personable, engaging, compassionate and attentive.

Shane considers a career change from third-grade teacher to school-lunch worker (mostly I thought this was a good excuse to take a picture of the anesthesiologist of whom Shane’s father said, “He looks like that guy in that movie.” ?).
What’s missing here is the vision of the beautiful blonde angel Michelle L. and her darling and very pink Miss Mary who were there to greet me as I left Shane to the devices of the anesthesiologists and walked out into the waiting room. (Did I mention she came bearing gifts of Godiva chocolate, a bookmark and some B&BW lotion? I told you she was an angel. And me, I’m just spoiled, but hopefully not rotten.)

This was my view from the seat where I waited. And where also I met a lovely man with a liver transplant who was waiting for his wife who has sarcoidosis and helped him get online, because neither one of us could stand to wait disconnected. And where I also prayed mightily (and broke my fast by feasting upon the goodness of Godiva). Which prayers were answered when the doctor arrived much sooner than expected and enthusiastically reported that everything went well.

Those of you who know Shane will understand what a good omen it was when pigeons came to land on the tree outside his room.
Finally, this is the view from the room wherein we have been embraced by family (Shane’s parents; my mother in person; my father in spirit; our three wonderful kids; my dear cousin Wendy who, with her husband and through gentle persuasion, helped changed the course of Shane’s treatment significantly for the good; proudly red-clad Uncle Doug and Aunt Earlene who hugged their strength into my bones before heading over to the BYU-Utah game) and nursed by angels Shari, Mackenzie, Charles and Anoma, (to name a few) and checked on by doctors and interns and residents. 
In truth we have been treated so well here I now feel compelled to (as Doug promised, but Earlene–as much as she loves us–couldn’t quite bring herself to do for our beloved BYU Blue) let out a quiet cheer for the Utes tonight when they make a good play.
Update and Q&A: Shane looks good and is doing well. He slept most of the afternoon, but now is able to stay awake till the morphine hits. He’s in good spirits and good form as evidenced by his teasing of the nurses and the aides. He likes bringing a smile to their faces and I hope it makes their 12-15 hour shifts go by a little more quickly. I’m happy to be able to find small and simple things to do to bring him a little comfort and make sure all the bases are covered by the spread-too-thinly but amazingly wonderful nursing staff. If all continues to go well Shane will be discharged tomorrow morning. We will not have the results of the final path report until late next week because they have to decalcify the tissue before the biopsy can be completed and the doctor won’t tell us the results until we can meet face-to-face for the follow-up. But we are not worried. We’ve been assured that Shane will be healed and we know it will be so. There is great peace in that knowledge.
January 27th, 2009 at 9:28 pm
I am hoping the best for you.
January 27th, 2009 at 9:52 pm
I love the marbles. Awesome.
January 27th, 2009 at 10:32 pm
it is good to document these things and such. very good.
January 27th, 2009 at 10:45 pm
I am so glad everything went well. I was praying and thinking about you all day at work today.
Loves your way
Katy
January 27th, 2009 at 11:21 pm
This is such good news.
I LOVE the pics!
*sigh* wish I could have been there to hug you in person!
January 27th, 2009 at 11:32 pm
Thanks Shelby.
Glittersmama–did you hear that Genean had her baby?
Kalli–are you proud of me for posting pics?
Thanks Katy–I miss you guys already!
b.–me too, but I definitely felt hugged today. And guess what–the staff here gave me free run of the ice machine–I’m in heaven!
January 28th, 2009 at 12:26 am
So glad for the update. Continued prayers for your family.
January 28th, 2009 at 7:09 am
What a beautiful update. Your small and simple things are always just right.
P.S. thought Shane lost his marbles years ago.
P.P.S. That anesthesiologist is HOT!
January 28th, 2009 at 11:01 am
Shane is such a card. I see what you meant earlier about everything being a little easier because of his sense of humor.
January 28th, 2009 at 11:14 am
Glad the surgery went well. It must be fun to have Shane as a patient.
January 28th, 2009 at 12:26 pm
I have never seen such a beautiful view for waiting families.
I’m so glad things went well!
January 28th, 2009 at 12:48 pm
You continue to be in my prayers. Much love, Tiffany
January 28th, 2009 at 2:13 pm
I was glad to read such a good update. I have no doubt that Shane will come through with flying colors…marbles intact and all…
January 28th, 2009 at 9:17 pm
“He looks like that guy in that movie.”
that made me laugh. i hope it made you laugh too.
and all good things…
January 29th, 2009 at 11:32 am
Can you share with us the history behind the marbles?
I’m so glad you had a support system with you, and that Shane is doing better than expected. How do they decalcify the bone?
I agree with sue: That anesthesiologist is HOT!
January 29th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
When Rebekah read about the pigeons landing outside Shane’s room she said “That is too cute!” She often talks about Shane taking her out in your backyard to show her his pigoens! She’d never seen anything like that before!
Glad to hear he’s in full form with the nurses – what a card!!
February 2nd, 2009 at 4:44 pm
So glad things are going so well! I have been praying for you guys
The snowy pics are gorgeous – and I also love the marbles!
February 2nd, 2009 at 7:35 pm
Thanks everyone–we so much appreciate your love, support and prayers.
February 10th, 2009 at 4:03 pm
Hey Shane,
God Bless, you are one of the greatest men I’ve ever met.
Your spirit, your testimony are priceless! I mean that!.
Good Luck w/your treatment…. I knew when I saw all that RED, that you’d be in Good Hands; sooner or later you Cougar Fans will realize that the UofU is far superior!!!
Be well, and God Bless!!!,
Love,
Matt Tison